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These images appeared in the 2001 Edition of the Bar Mitzvah and Party Planning Guide Magazine.

The cover appeared only on the Tri-State version, not the Long Island edition. Publishing errors resulted in the cover being very washed out and yellow. These images are reproduced from the magazine itself except for the cover where you see our original file.

Herein you see how it was meant to look.

If the Bar/Bat Mitzvah is to be more than a teenager's party, then imagery must be based on substance, and an understanding of what the event really means.

Is it the culmination of something, the beginning of something, does it have religious significance, or is that an old and obscure opinion?

Is it a fun time and reason to party? Does it honor the parents, the kids, the grandparents?

Please fill me in.

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As an artist I should get into character the way a method actor would. I should make a statement.

I am not there to capture anything.

Hunters capture! They kill!

I am a sculptor.

The images here and in the many VISIONS pages, especially Neshama, and Spirit&Identity, evoke an appropriate and meaningful emotion.

The Bar/Bat-Mitzvah should be a celebration that recognizes roots and the transference of tradition, customs and beliefs from one generation to another.

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A value system at the core of most religions, and the pursuit of Torah study with its emphasis on analytic thought and logic leading to the development of the medical, legal, and scientific disciplines, are some reasons to be proud of the milestone that the Mitzvah should mark for the child and family.

Rabbi Meir Kahane's books: "Listen World, Listen Jew, or Why Be Jewish?" and Dr. Alan Dershowitz's: "The Vanishing American Jew" while at opposite extremes, give plenty of reasons for celebrating Jewish Identity.

Identity. If it survives has done so against all attempts to eradicate it, and despite the nearly universal condemnation of most of the entire world.

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In addition to performance study, which in some communities comprises the majority of preparation for Bar/Bat-Mitzvah, more time should be spent discussing history.

The trials and tribulations, the battles and the bloodshed, the victories and the losses, and the fact that the Holocaust, the most recent horror, was not an isolated instance but that in fact approximately every two hundred years, concerted efforts were made to destroy the Jews as a people.

Passion; intensity; character; beauty; strength; substance; sentiment; roots; bonding; pride; identity; and spirit...

That's what I try to show!

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Gary Rabenko's inspired, creative bar mizvah, bat mitzvah, bnei mitzvot photography captures neshama, Torah memories and bracha, inspires nachat and memories that will mean more for a lifetime.